The #1 Reason You Have Trust Issues and Feeling Damaged Doesn't Mean You'll Never Find True Love Let's face it, we're all damaged. Unless you've never been in a relationship before or don't have questionable family dynamics, chances are some kind of betrayal has occurred in your life. So what do we do with those problems? We usually leave all that baggage on people who have nothing to do with our disastrous past. Raise your hand if you have been betrayed before and take it out on your now current partner. You're not alone! The trauma of betrayal does a lot of nasty things to us: jealous, anxious, complaining, needy, insecure... Trust issues are detrimental for another key reason: self-sabotage. You don't want to be hurt again, so you go to great lengths to kill the potential for something serious before it has happened. Does it sound familiar to you? Can you imagine dying alone, surrounded by a thousand cats? Your outcome doesn't have to be so grim. The trauma of betrayal hurts, whether it was inflicted by a parent, a friend, or a romantic partner. However, this does not mean that you will never get over it or that you will never find true love. In Trust Issues in Relationships, you'll discover: Why trust is so hard but it's also the greatest thing on earth The #1 reason you have trust issues and what you can do to fix it The P-word in the dating world betrayal trauma (which means sorry, stop thinking wrong!) Why sweeping trauma under the rug never works, and why you have to face your problems Anxious attachment and how it can kill a good relationship An exercise psychologists believe which is vital to building trust with your partnerThe beauty of vulnerability and transparency10 signs that your trust issues have affected you a lotAnd much more. Right now, it may feel like the pain will never end. After all, you've been fooled so many times in the past that history is bound to repeat itself, isn't it? Not if the vicious circle is broken. Understand that you are in control and can say, "Enough!" Being your own advocate and taking charge can help you understand insecurities, work through past traumas, and get your partner involved in the process. You deserve love and you can make healing happen, no matter how damaged you've been before Ending trust issues depends on your inner motivation

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