The Real World -- How dating all the wrong guys led me to the right one -- Should I or shouldn't I? Coming to the decision to get pregnant -- What being preggers is really like -- What I didn't expect when I was expecting -- Labor day -- The new mom daze & haze -- On the boob -- If you don't snooze, you lose -- The shortest & longest year of my life -- Regaining your sense of self -- The pressure to give your child (and yourself) a Pinterest-worthy life -- The terrible & not-so-terrible twos -- One & done -- Gotta love the grandparents -- Southern charming -- Conclusion. What you gain as a mom (besides baby weight)

"The fan favorite star of the Bravo hit series Southern Charm offers a witty and candid collection of essays on dating, motherhood, and everything in between"--

From a young age Eubanks was determined to flout the expectaion that Southern women are expected to want the white picket fence life. She enjoyed her single life, focused on her real estate career, joined the cast of a reality show-- and met her future husband, Jason. Once married, Eubanks faced the same dilemma so many women encounter: whether or not to have kids. Her own journey to motherhood was anything but simple. Here she shares honest advice that she learned through dating, pregnancy, and motherhood. -- adapted from jacket