Light bulb on!: How I woke up and what I didn't know about men -- Your love is not enough: Why your respect means more to him than even your affection -- The performance of a lifetime: Why your Mr. Smooth looks so impressive but feels like an impostor -- The thinker: When checking out is actually checking in -- The loneliest burden: How his need to provide weighs your man down and why he likes it that way -- Sex changes everything: Why sex unlocks a man's emotions (guess who holds the key?) -- Keeper of the photo files: Why it's so difficult for him not to look, and so hard to forget what he's seen -- Chocolate, flowers, bait fishing: Why the reluctant Romeo you know really does want romance -- The truth about taking care of yourself: Why what's on the outside matters to him on the inside -- Words for your heart: What your man most wishes you knew about him