Sex is not intimacy -- Common interests are not enough -- You know the storm is coming -- What is driving our relationships? -- The opposite of love is not hate -- How the seven levels of intimacy will change your relationships--and your life! -- Clichés : the first level of intimacy -- Facts : the second level of intimacy -- Opinions : the third level of intimacy -- Hopes and dreams : the fourth level of intimacy -- Feelings : the fifth level of intimacy-- Faults, fears, and failures : the sixth level of intimacy -- Legitimate needs : the seventh level of intimacy -- Ten reasons people don't have great relationships -- Designing a great relationship -- Don't just hope--