The faces of anger : who do you see in the mirror? -- Behind the mask : understanding anger and its expression -- Understanding your anger triggers -- Anger awareness -- Dampening anger arousal -- Recognizing thoughts that fuel anger -- Rewriting your script : new thinking for new solutions -- Assertive problem solving : expressing anger constructively in conflict situations -- When anger is aimed at you -- Establishing new anger habits -- So you've had a setback : getting back on track -- Appendix 1: Self-assessment of anger questionnaire (SAQ) -- Appendix 2: Daily anger log -- Appendix 3: Personal anger scale -- Appendix 4: Anger analysis -- Appendix 5: The relationship anger profile (RAP)

"This successful guide has already helped many tens of thousands of readers understand and manage out-of-control anger in all its forms, from passive-aggression to all-out rage. Dr. Robert Nay presents an effective six-step program grounded in the proven techniques of cognitive-behavioral therapy. Self-quizzes and exercises show how to immediately recognize anger's triggers and early warning signs--and master cooling-off strategies that work in the heat of the moment. By learning specific ways to defuse conflict and express their feelings calmly, readers can put a lid on destructive anger while appropriately asserting their needs. The revised second edition includes a new chapter on resolving longstanding resentments, plus updated examples and resources"--