Originally published: Old Tappan, N.J. : F.H. Revell, c1989

On asking God why -- On brazen heavens -- Singleness is a gift -- A look in the mirror -- Happy birthday : you're heading home! -- I won't bother with a face-lift -- Why funerals matter -- Hope for a hopeless failure -- O little town of Nazareth -- A no-risk life -- Shortcut to peace -- To judge or not to judge -- Have it your way : or God's -- Person or thing? -- To a man who chose divorce -- The "innocent" party -- Is divorce the only way? -- Images of hell -- When I was being made in secret -- London diary -- How to sell yourself -- Meeting God alone -- The song of the animals -- We've come a long way : or have we? -- The Christian's safety -- Tenderness -- Parable in a car wash -- Two marriageable people -- Pick up the broom! -- A jungle grave