Thanksgiving is almost here and families are getting ready to gather. On a recent pass through The Marketplace I came across a real gem in the parenting section called Before We Say "Goodnight": How to Tell Bedtime Stories About Your Life and Family by Hank Frazee. In it he shares a concept so brilliant yet so simple that it made me wonder why I didn't think of it years ago, or at least before my kids entered their twenties!
The author has turned bedtime story time into a time to share stories from your own life.Let's face it, your children love hearing about who you were before they were born. Everyone has a story to tell and the author helps you choose moments from both your and your relatives' lives and turn them into simple stories perfect for telling at bedtime or anytime. Frazee shares a simple three step method to turn real life experiences into great stories without notes or memorization. He even provides story prompters so you can easily come up with events in your life than can be turned into a story. The book is filled with example stories, such as "Grandpa and the Pig" and "Magic Fingers", that will convince you that you too, whether you are a parent, grandparent, or beloved aunt or uncle, can share stories in an entertaining way.
So this Thanksgiving why not start a tradition of sharing your oral history. It will put smiles on faces, deepen relationships, and probably provide a few laughs. Your family will thank you.