Start with yourself -- Practice the 30-second rule -- Let people know you need them -- Create a memory and visit it often -- Compliment people in front of other people -- Give others a reputation to uphold -- Say the right words at the right time -- Encourage the dreams of others -- Pass the credit on to others -- Offer your very best -- Share a secret with someone -- Mine the gold of good intentions -- Keep your eyes off the mirror -- Do for others what they can't do for themselves -- Listen with your heart -- Find the keys to their hearts -- Be the first to help -- Add value to people -- Remember a person's story -- Tell a good story -- Give with no strings attached -- Learn your mailman's name -- Point out people's strengths -- Write notes of encouragement -- Help people win